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Defense Mechanisms
Based on Steve Fair’s book, Journey into the Divided Heart, this teaching has been foundational for thousands of individuals pursuing deeper heart healing through seminars and trainings across the country.
Defense mechanisms are God-given ways our hearts seek to protect us from real or perceived emotional threats. But when these protective responses operate outside of God’s direction—and continue to react to unresolved wounds and trauma—they can become significant barriers to healing. The very strategies that once helped us survive can eventually contribute to depression, anxiety, fear, anger, addictions, relational conflict, and disconnection.
In this teaching, Steve helps you recognize these protective patterns, understand what is happening beneath them, and begin moving from self-protection toward healing, connection, and wholeheartedness.
A foundational teaching for anyone pursuing heart healing and an ideal companion to Journey into the Divided Heart. — $29
Spiritual Barriers to Heart Healing
A few years into his work as a clinical counselor, Steve sensed the Lord challenge him: “If you want to see the miraculous results that Jesus did in healing, then you need to do everything He did.”
That realization changed the direction of Steve’s ministry. Jesus addressed people as whole persons—and His ministry included confronting the spiritual forces that kept people bound. Scripture warns that the enemy comes to “steal and kill and destroy” (John 10:10) and calls believers to recognize that our struggle is not merely against “flesh and blood” (Ephesians 6:12).
Yet spiritual warfare is not about living in fear of the enemy. It is about understanding the authority, presence, protection, and freedom available through Jesus Christ.
In this three-hour teaching, Steve explores the spiritual dimension of heart healing and introduces principles and prayer interventions drawn from HeartSync and Inner Healing Prayer. You will learn to recognize potential spiritual barriers, understand how unresolved wounds and spiritual agreements can interact, and approach spiritual warfare from a position of connection with Jesus rather than fear.
If we address the body and soul while ignoring the spiritual realm, we may be overlooking an important dimension of healing. — $29
Boundaries the HeartSync Way
Boundaries have been a mainstay of psychotherapy, Christian counseling, and relationship teaching for decades. But what happens when boundaries become another form of self-protection rather than an expression of love, discernment, and healthy connection?
Boundaries the HeartSync Way goes beyond simply teaching you when to say yes and when to say no. Steve explores boundaries through the lens of heart healing, the Holy Spirit, spiritual discernment, attachment, and our relationship with God.
Healthy boundaries are not simply about controlling who gets close to us. They involve learning to discern what God is asking of us, recognizing the wounded places within us that may be reacting out of fear, and developing the freedom to remain relationally connected without surrendering appropriate protection and responsibility.
This three-hour teaching and ministry experience will help you examine why you set the boundaries you set—and whether they are being driven by fear and self-protection or by healing, wisdom, love, and the leading of the Holy Spirit.
Move beyond boundaries as self-protection and discover boundaries that support freedom, connection, discernment, and Godly intimacy. — $29
Trauma Workshop
Many mental health symptoms and relational struggles can be connected to painful or traumatic experiences that have not yet been fully processed or resolved.
But understanding trauma requires balance. We don’t want to minimize what happened or deny its impact, yet we also don’t want trauma to become the defining story of our identity. Accurately understanding what happened, how our hearts and bodies responded, and what remains unresolved can open the door to profound healing.
In this workshop, Steve examines trauma through the interconnected dimensions of body, soul, and spirit. You will explore how trauma can affect the nervous system, emotions, beliefs, relationships, attachment, and spiritual connection, along with interventions designed to address each of these areas.
Special emphasis is given to Inner Healing Prayer and spiritually integrated approaches that invite Jesus into places of unresolved pain—not merely helping us cope with what happened, but pursuing deeper resolution, connection, and freedom.
Trauma may explain part of your story, but it does not have to define the rest of your story. — $29
Anxiety Workshop
Steve originally developed this training in response to what he described as “the squeeze”—the growing tension, fear, pressure, and anxiety he was seeing in people around him.
Anxiety is more than a thought, more than an emotion, and more than a physical sensation. This workshop examines anxiety through the interconnected dimensions of body, soul, and spirit, providing practical interventions for each.
Particular attention is given to Polyvagal Theory and nervous-system regulation, helping participants understand why the body can continue signaling danger even when the conscious mind knows it is safe. Steve then integrates these concepts with emotional and cognitive interventions, Inner Healing Prayer, and spiritually focused approaches to peace, safety, and connection with God.
The workshop also includes an experiential Inner Healing Prayer exercise designed to help participants move beyond simply understanding anxiety and begin personally experiencing greater peace and connection.
If you or someone you love has been feeling “the squeeze” of anxiety and fear, this training provides a practical framework for addressing anxiety at the level of body, soul, and spirit. — $29